Friday, April 20, 2012

Kissin' Wears Out, Cookin' Don't!



My Mennonite grandmother used to say this all the time. It's a fairly common saying in Mennonite kitchens and one that always made laugh. Ten years ago today, Hubs and I got married. As I was thinking about how to celebrate, my grandmother's words came to mind. I had to laugh at the truth and wisdom in that saying that I now understand more fully. Walking down the aisle, harp playing, birds singing, I had more kissing on my mind than cooking. After ten years of marriage, I can tell you that dinner time comes around every day. Kissing is still important but dinner time is eternal. It's one of those things I thought I knew before I got married. After answering "what's for dinner?" for 10 years now, I really get it. So here's ten things I've learned in ten years:

1. Grammy was right, you'll do more cooking than kissing.
2. You'll probably experience everything you vowed to love each other through.
3. Marriage isn't easy. It takes hard work, every day. It's easy to take each other for granted, it hard work not to.
4. Dirty laundry is another one of those constants.
5. It's the little things, more than the grand gestures, that mean the most.
6. Learn to say "I'm sorry", it goes a looong way!
7. When he apologizes, accept it and move on. Holding on to past hurts ruins future happiness.
8. Be prepared to change course. You never know what road ahead holds.
9. Accept that you won't agree on everything, and that's a good thing.
10. Kissing is still really important!

Ok so this list barely scratches the surface of the lessons learned in ten years but these were some of the biggest for me. I know that there'll be many more things to learn in the years to come. Here's to ten more years and all the cookin' it brings!

11 comments:

MissLauren said...

Congratulations!

MissLauren said...

Congratulations on 10 years!

Helene said...

Nice post, congrats on 10 yrs!

bellini said...

Congratulations 10 years of joy! Wishing you 10 more years without the sad bits.

Heather @girlichef.com said...

Aww...what a sweet post. And true ;) congrats on 10 years!

Stephanie said...

I love that saying! Congrats on the decade of marriage, and all you've learned (and will continue to learn)!

Diana said...

Congratulations!!! I love this post thank you for sharing :)

I will be married 1 year next month. The first year is really the hardest I think.

grace said...

congratulations on the milestone! this is a great post that you'll look back on and enjoy!

Asmita said...

Congratulations! This is such a beautiful post. I enjoyed reading it.

kellypea said...

Beautiful photo and sot on advice. Congrats to you for many more! We're looking forward to our 25th this year and couldn't be happier. Yes, dinner is a special time of day for so many reasons...

ShirleyHS said...

You've learned a lot in ten years. May you have many more!

Kissin' and cookin' -- two of life's great pleasures.